Lola Jean

Patient Leader

Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer and World Record Holder for Volume (solo) Squirting. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. As featured in The New York Times, Vice, Elite Daily and Mens Health, Lola offers a variety of classes to help people have better sex with themselves and each other. Through private kink or sex coaching, hands-on classes, talks, and her podcast w The Reluctant Sexpert : ‘Is Our Love ___?’, it is her goal to challenge gender and societal norms without perpetuating what is already so prevalent in porn or the male gaze. To provide individuals with tools and information that is inclusive of the spectrum of our sexuality. To help women put their pleasure first, and demand it. To introduce men to anal pleasure. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve.


New York, NY


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